Penmar Golf Course

Happily Ever After Party

Cocktail Hour

Golf Tournament (optional)

Dinner and Festivities continue

The after afterparty

Our Wedding

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We kindly ask guests to wear their "FUNKIEST FIT"...think BOLD colors, playful PRINTS, and fun PATTERNS/TEXTURES! ANYTHING GOES (or something cocktail attire lol)!!!***Bright colors, animal print, feathers, sequin, and everything in between STRONGLY ENCOURAGED

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Schedule of Events

It all started when two goofs, met each other at the net. It was one beautiful Sunday when Lane, holding a white claw, locked eyes with Jess, she rolled up to Sorrento beach with a backpack cooler full of modelos. She jumped in to sub for someone’s doubles partner during playoffs, and ended up kicking Lane (and SJ’s) asses and made it to semifinals. Even after losing, Lane (3 claws deep) looked at Jess (3 modelos deep), and felt a palpable connection. After that, the rest was history…

Met him at the net

A few Instagram DMs and what’s app text exchanges later, Jess proposed going to a Dodger World Series game as “just friends”, however, due to logistics that unfortunately didn’t work out. BUT, Lane picked up what she was putting down, and proposed a non “just friends” sports outting, Jess was not on the same page. Luckily, their 6hr Laker date was enough to convince Jess, this might actually be a “date”.

The non-date “first date”

After a couple weeks of dating, Jess was still on the fence. She knew she had a great time with Lane, but there was just something missing. It wasn’t until Lane surprised her with a total plan change from seeing “Back to the Future”, instead, they saw “The Empire Strips Back”. Something about Princess Leia giving Jabba the Hutt a lap dance to Pour Some Sugar on Me, really sparked something in a Jess. The sparks started flying…

The moment she knew

The Story

Wedding Party

Q + A

Travel

Things to Do

Registry

To stay true to our non-traditional values, we're hosting a 3-hole scramble during cocktail hour—and everyone's invited to play! (You too ladies! We recommend bringing an extra pair of flats so your heels don't sink in the grass) Gear: Golf clubs will be provided, however, feel free to bring your own! Format: 10 teams of 4, scramble style Playoffs: Top 3 teams advance to a sudden-death hole with the whole crowd cheering Side contests: Closest to the pin · One-club challengePrizes for the winners! Want to sign up? Click the link and sign up on the Google Sheet below. Know who you want to play with? Sign up on the TEAMS sheet.No team yet? Sign up on the FREE AGENT sheet—we'll match solo players. <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pSUrUOR-P-E86pOLvQ3NqS68dXkEt24_OkBQuw5-O9A/edit?usp=sharing" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pSUrUOR-P-E86pOLvQ3NqS68dXkEt24_OkBQuw5-O9A/edit?usp=sharing</a> If you have any questions, text Lane or Jess!

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Jess & Lane

Jess & Lane

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